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•  It is the right thing to do, here’s why…
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               5. Moralizing

               Telling people what they should do.

               For example:

                   •  You really should…
                   •  The rights thing to do is…
                   •  It’s your duty to…



               6. Judging

               Can be in the form of blaming, criticising or simply disagreeing.

               For example:

                   •  Well, it’s your own fault!
                   •  You’re still asleep at ten in the morning?
                   •  That was a bad decision.


               7. Agreeing

               Usually sounds like taking sides with the person, perhaps approving or praising.
               For example:

                   •  You are absolutely right.
                   •  Good for you!
                   •  That’s what I would do, too.


               8. Shaming

               Attaching a name or a stereotype to what the person is saying or doing.
               For example:
                   •  That’s a silly way to think.
                   •  How could you do such a thing?
                   •  You’re being selfish.


               9. Analysing
               Reinterpreting or explaining what the person is saying or doing.
               For example:
                   •  Your unconscious is telling you…
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