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5. Moralizing
Telling people what they should do.
For example:
• You really should…
• The rights thing to do is…
• It’s your duty to…
6. Judging
Can be in the form of blaming, criticising or simply disagreeing.
For example:
• Well, it’s your own fault!
• You’re still asleep at ten in the morning?
• That was a bad decision.
7. Agreeing
Usually sounds like taking sides with the person, perhaps approving or praising.
For example:
• You are absolutely right.
• Good for you!
• That’s what I would do, too.
8. Shaming
Attaching a name or a stereotype to what the person is saying or doing.
For example:
• That’s a silly way to think.
• How could you do such a thing?
• You’re being selfish.
9. Analysing
Reinterpreting or explaining what the person is saying or doing.
For example:
• Your unconscious is telling you…